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And it probably has to do with the causes of sexual orientation and early effects of hormones on the brain," Bailey said. Bailey did a survey of professional dancers and found half the men were gay. But why? It's no big deal, and as a matter of fact, it's almost celebrated if you're gay," said dancer Meredith Rainey. I think it's a good thing.

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And I think it's quite silly because let's think about it. You are working around beautiful women all day that are half naked. It's a great job for straight guys," said Zach Hench, a straight dancer. One problem with stereotyping is that there are so many exceptions. The owners of the Prada Grusel hair salon in New York City are straight but people think they're gay. Another stereotype is that gay people speak differently than straight people.

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That's often true, said Bailey. You can tell far better than chance who's a gay man from just listening to him say four sentences," Bailey said. Five gay and five straight men spent an hour mingling with dozens of people. Could the testers determine who was gay and who was straight? People were accurate 60 percent of the time, which is better than chance. But there were plenty of wrong guesses, too, showing that the stereotypes can be way off.

The man who most people thought was straight was actually gay.

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Many people do think that gay men are more promiscuous than straight men, and in fact, Bailey said, gay men do have more sex partners. But, he said, it's because men, in general, want lots of partners and women, in general, do not. Women limit the amount of sex that straight men have.

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That can't be a good thing," Bailey said. Spit or swallow? On the one hand all of this is wonderful. Likewise, open conversations about the sexual mores of gay men are pretty fabulous. Because not every gay person is DTF. That perpetuates a vicious cycle. I feel such an expectation to have good sex and if I don't feel like that's happened then it makes me feel very self-conscious and then I project that inwards. A lot of that anxiety also comes from how my performance sexually is portrayed and my relative inexperience drives that uncertainty.

source When Craig became single nine months ago, he expected the sex to come rolling in. Liam agrees that the perceived stereotypes of the gay community have impacted his confidence when it comes to sex. There can be medical reasons for a lack of personal libido.

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Age, physical health, mental health, and medications can all play a part. This comes after a survey by The Observer in found that libido in Britain at least had decreased overall among men and women, and another study that suggested that low desire in men under 40 has seen a sharp increase in recent years.